Everything happens for a reason. Is it so? May be. Does life just happen or do we paint it in our way in a blank canvass. I don't wish to use circumlocutory terms that goes beyond your understanding. You are my soulmate for the time being while you read me in black and white. It's just an overflow of spontaneous emotions, rather I can call these as undeniable and uncontrollable thoughts that finds its release through these pages. Have heard enough of motivational speeches but it's not that easy at times to face certain irreparable situations that we often touch with our bare hands and witness with our tearful naked eyes.
Eyes ! Wow ! You might have heard for sure. They are soulmates who stay always nearby, see the same dream, visualize and see the same thoughts perhaps but they don't see each other till they die. A beautiful proximity indeed. We meet some people who stay for sometime and leave us after their part is over. We expect them to stay with us for eternal time. Guess what happens? They never prove to be like the other eye to us that stays with us forever but they just vanish like the dead cells after a shower.
The world has changed. Now we live in a world of dilemma, selfishness, in midst of dramatic people who mastered the theatrical skills. Hats off to those who are still playing their violin with the same intensity and love that's never heard in the mashup music composed in this century. We can find plagiarism everywhere. In print, in music, in life and relationships as such. People copy others. They behave as someone else. Separate themselves from their true identity. Just fed up of all this drama! What next? Tried to listen to some really nice speakers like Sadhguru, read Paulo Coelho etc. But do you think it's that easy to inhale and exhale air with our realistic self. We need to master theatrical skills if you need to live. We must be totally devoted to our goal to succeed in life. For all cling around successful people.
People out there...Listen ! This is the world that's severely disabled by need based relationships. Some of you might say that that's simply because human beings are social beings. Ya off course I too agree that we are definitely but don't you think the fulfilment of needs have risen to such an extent that there is always a lack of genuineness everywhere. Are we heading towards a humanity that defines even relationships as just a necessity where people are just being selfish, unconcerned about the pain of their fellow beings, the fellow creatures. Let me not be too philosophical. I know my readers may really get bored as you are also one of the kinds seeking positivity always. In fact there is no thought that you can call as negative. It's all about channelizing ones' thought and how one conceives a thought process. Any negative situation can be approached in a positive way by just travelling with that thought and analyzing it and by arriving at a solution rather than escaping from it. The truth is as you run away from negative thoughts and pressurize yourselves to imbibe all the positive vibes, the reverse effect takes place. Your mind still clings to that aspect that you name as negative. Think that it's all about different days. Don't think life is going to be an easy journey.
Some days are really hard. We feel at times that let the world collapse into nothing. So terrible some moments are, some situations are. Yes, it's really hard to tackle some people and some situations. Innumerable thoughts wander inside our tiny brain and we think often that yes this is the end of my story but it's never the end. As I said everything happens for a reason. You might be travelling to a hill station with lots of expectations to enjoy with your family. On the way you your car tire gets punctured. You might curse the moment because you were to enjoy those moments in a lovely resort but unfortunately you are wasting time in fixing your car tire. Instead of cursing the moment have you ever thanked God when you hear next day in the newspaper that a landslide took place where the resort was situated and you are alive just because your car got its tire punctured. Yes, everything, even the negative incidents in our life happens for a reason. You need to trust yourself and trust in God and be optimistic even in difficult times.
In your adolescent age you might be struggling in your own home because your mom and dad fight with each other. You might be fed up of those horrible days. You might feel like running away from your own home. May be you have difficulty to cope with your family members, may it be your mother in law, father in law, your own children, your loved ones , your colleagues and so on. You might be cursing at times yourself for taking birth this nasty utilitarian world. Have you ever thought like these are people who teach us patience, make us stronger, teach us to adjust with others, instill the spirit of being goal oriented. Yes, in fact the loved ones are the people who hurt us the most but they are the people who make us stronger. Do not get depressed. Count each and every difficult situation as a new possibility for self improvement.
Living in hostel I have heard many stories of my friends as I was their trustworthy friend. Some said their parents are separated and they feel like dying. Some faced financial crisis and because of which their father committed suicide. Some said they are from very rich background but they still feel lonely and mad put of loneliness. One said her own father abused her and that's why she lived in hostel. Some are mentally sick with depression and under treatment. Last but not least those dramatic people with theatrical skills who don't trust anyone, not even themselves, who paint a beautiful smile on the face acting out they live in bliss. Getting deeper into their lives ,we realize they are the ones who had gone through the most painful situations.
Life is never easy. If it were, we would never know the value of happiness and peace. The absence of one gives value to the other. Thus the absence of happiness gives its true value to it. To comprehend the real meaning of happiness we must experience sorrow first.
Let's not chase happiness, let's understand what others are going through, what you yourselves are going through, how to be down to earth in spite of your position and power, how to be empathetic to all, how to be what you really are instead of playing someone else part. For no one can fight for you in your misery. They can only pull you down and celebrate your failure.
You yourself must lead the fight to win !